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カノジョになりたい君と僕
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4
Finished
Jul 24, 2018 to Aug 18, 2020
8.3/10
Average Review Score
100%
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4
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Finally, a manga that is upfront to address and question binary constructions. It doesn’t only break gender roles switching them like a typical gender bender, it goes beyond. It opens the possibility to identify with some things that society expects you to be/like, but at the same time not accept what is imposed and not fitting. Kanojo ni Naritai Kimi to Boku (Kanoboku) turns the classic question “Who I am?” to “Who I want to be?” and the message that stayed with me the most was: when the boxes available for you are too constricted, it’s ok to create new ones or even question theexistence of boxes! I personally got attached with each one of the characters and their struggles. The ones who were presented got a decent spotlight and construction, although from my perspective some things got solved too quicky. Well, it could be seen as one of the strongest points of this manga: it doesn’t rely heavily on drama, although it touches on topics that could give enough material for that. It has a lighter approach, making it a supportive and most of the time a safe environment for the characters to experience their struggles. This isn’t a complain, I believe we need more works portraying social minorities that are hopeful without disregarding their suffering or challenges they might face. The number of chapters seems a lot, but it was a very fast reading for me. The characters’ design have unique points and we have interesting frame angles here and there. It was very minimalistic and nothing averts your attention from one of the main points: characters interactions with one another. Talking about interactions, the author gave a thoughtful approach to that, but sometimes it sounded very “theoretical” to me. I could see that Takase Umi had some prior knowledge/contact with expansive genders and sexualities discussions/experiences/theories before publishing Kanoboku, some references could be seen here and there, however, when a character was having a difficult time, it’s almost shocking how there was always someone to say and do just the “right” thing. Almost as if some texts and books I read were personified. Saying all that, I really enjoyed reading it. I empathized with each journey portrayed and it became a good source to see a queerer coming-of-age story (ies) and reflect about myself, be it related to gender, sexuality, friendship, love, identity, relationships, values… I believe it’s worth the reading, offering some food for thought!
Hime Sakuragaike has secretly been in love with her childhood friend Akira Yonezawa since they were kids, but Hime only recently found out that Akira identifies as female. Although surprised, Hime offers her full support, and this is initially kept secret between them for a few years, but Akira decides to start living as a girl full-time upon starting high school with Hime. However, since Akira garners a certain amount of attention, Hime takes it upon herself to aggressively stick up for Akira whenever necessary. Not wanting Akira to be singled out as an object of ridicule, Hime decides that her only option is to put herself in Akira's shoes. (Source: MU)
Sometimes all you really need is for something (or someone) to have its heart in the right place. If I was to give this manga a purely critical review, then maybe it's score might be a little lower. It certainly doesn't have the most inspired plot beats, or the most brilliant dialogue. But what makes this manga work is in how thoroughly it explores its ideas across its relatively short length. The story centers around Akira's struggles as a newly out trans girl in high school, and it portrays her in an honest, realistic way. This alone is pretty rare for manga, but what makes it specialis how the story explores other characters relationships to gender and sexuality as well. At times this can feel a little didactic, a little "LGBT 101", but it serves a purpose. By comparing and contrasting how other characters relate to these ideas, we get a greater understanding of what these ideas mean to Akira, and it makes the characters feel fleshed out in a way they otherwise wouldn't. Overall, it's a good coming of age story with a somewhat bittersweet ending. Definitely worth a read if anything mentioned here seems interesting.
*Spoilers* And yes the main characters do not end up together and I get how how people were disappointed with the lack of a wlw relationship between them. However, it is a sweet story and I believe gives visibility for many queer experiences and non-conventional views of love. I especially adore the character, Sensei Sasaki who is a canonical aroace and it's so rare to see aromantic characters in manga and media as a whole. The art style is cute, I like how the characters tend to look like the shrimp from Sumiko Gurashi and it adds to the comedic tones. Short and sweet at only50 chapters, it's a great read! It still amazes me how well the struggles and experiences with personal identity, gender orientation, sexual orientation is dealt with and explored in the manga. Maybe I am biased to see excellently-done aro representation and trans-representation which is rare in even Western media but to see it so properly and respectfully explored, is credit due for the author.
Really enjoyed this series. It takes a very real look at queerness's complexities, particularly that of gender expression. It's very nuanced, taking time to examine every side of every story, and have each character properly communicate their feelings. It was quite refreshing really! The art & characters were also fantastic, I enjoy the more comedic doodles of the characters, it was charming and cute, and all the character designs were lovely, especially that of Akira's in my book, she's so cute!!! I really wish the series focused on her more overall rather than the ways people feel about and react to her. I wouldn't say spoilersruin the experience, but just in case you wanna read it for yourself blind, here is your warning!!! Just know the series doesn't have quite the ending I hoped for, and that you may hope for. I saw it genuinely disappointed some, so if you feel you want to know before going in, I'd recommend it. There's still a lot to experience and enjoy in this manga that I didn't speak about. =The Ending= So, the series ends with Hime getting happily married to a man (a quite charming, pretty man might I add) after Akira rejects her. Overall I think that's alright, I appreciate the honesty of a series letting their characters be true to their feelings and not force to that extent, but I can't act like I am not a little disappointed about that. From the start it felt they were trying to build up the romance between them, and I was excited to see how their dynamic as a cisgender girl and transgender girl would work in their romance, but that did not end up happening. Seriously, it was quite the cop out to have several chapters about Hime fearing she is only attracted to Akira because she views her as a man, only to realize she was in love with her as a woman, only for her to get married to a man at the end. I at least wish the manga directly acknowledged her as bisexual or somethin'. Last complaint!!! I wish at the end we could see what kind of partner Akira would end up with. I believe she was the only member of the main cast to not have a partner by the end, which made me sad, I really liked her and wanted to see her happy. We at least got her catching a bouquet of flowers at the wedding, hinting she'll find love next, but it was still a bit disappointing. I promise I liked the ending, despite the whining! Best moment of it for me, and for the whole manga really, was seeing Akira finally grow out her hair. I won't lie, seeing her finally have the long hair she dreamed of genuinely made me emotional. Apologies for the rambling, I had a lot of feelings about the ending! Just to note, I wasn't criticizing it there, there's nothing really wrong with it, it was just disappointing to me and some others personally. All my nitpicks aside, this is a super cute queer manga that I'd recommend highly if you're chill with the ending!